Many kids in high school have no idea what they want to do with their lives. I know parents often have plans for them, but sometimes the more you push, the more they seem determined to resist. The pressure is on, and the question of college plans seems to be on everyone’s lips. However, it is often better to start with a few questions worth exploring. What interests the student? What are they good at? What do they enjoy? Or, just as important, what do they hate? The answers to those questions can start to point toward which colleges may be good fits and what the student hopes to get out of the college experience.
Personality, Situation and Interest Assessment
Educational Path Planning
High School, Extracurricular, and Passion Project Planning
Personality, Situation and Interest Assessment - Students are often asked “What do you want to be?” long before they have enough experience to really know. I start by getting to know the student—their interests, strengths, dislikes, work habits, preferred environments, and the realities of their situation. Cost, location, family circumstances, and how certain or uncertain the student is about the future all matter too. The goal is not to put a student in a box or have a test tell them what career to choose. It is to take a very large world of possibilities and narrow it down to a few directions that may be worth exploring.
Educational Path Planning - Once a student has a few possible directions, we can start looking at what it might actually take to get there. What majors could lead toward those careers? Does the career require a particular degree, or are there several ways in? Would starting at a community college make sense? Could a North Carolina public university, a private college with merit aid, or even graduate school later provide a better route? We can also look at which high school courses help keep those options open. The goal is not to map out the student’s entire life in high school. It is to make the next few choices with enough foresight that good options remain open without wasting unnecessary time or money.
High School, Extracurricular, and Passion Project Planning - High school should not become four years of collecting activities just to fill up a college application. Courses, clubs, sports, jobs, volunteering, independent projects, and other interests can help students figure out what they enjoy while also giving colleges a better picture of how they spend their time. Ridgeline Advising helps students think through activities and projects that are realistic, meaningful, and sustainable while keeping academics and graduation requirements on track. If a genuine interest grows into a larger passion project, great. If it does not, that is okay too. The goal is not to manufacture an impressive résumé, but to help the student build experiences that have some purpose behind them.
"To find yourself, think for yourself. " — Socrates